You decided to stay in the relationship even though he has cheated on you. The decision was painful and difficult but you made it through and he promised he will never hurt you again like that. You believe him, and why should you not, after all you love him and the thought of getting into another relationship again is not an option for you. But has your cheating partner stopped his wayward way, and how can you be sure? Well there are some tell- tale signs that he may cheat again and there are ways you can prevent it.
Prevention step 1:
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Let me start off by saying what I am going to propose will not be easy but necessary. First you must first find out what he thought was the failure in your relationship to cause him to step out on you. Now he may try to avoid answering this question, because he knows that whatever he may say may lead to rehashing all the emotions that you put aside when you decided to keep the relationship. But you must be persistent in getting the truthful answer from him. Inform him in order for you to gain his trust again he must be honest with you. Listen objectively your intuition will tell you if he is leaving things out in his responses. If he is unwilling to or insists on not doing this, it is a possible tell- tale sign he is prone to repeat the action.
Prevention step 2
This is on the same lines as prevention step 1 in trying to gather information, ask him point blank if there still is any form of contact with the other woman. If that answer is yes be on your guard this a red flag situation and the chance of him cheating again is extremely high. To protect your relationship and prevent the indiscretion from occurring again you have to be firm and insist that he severs all ties. If he has children with an ex or the other woman works with him this becomes more challenging but there are ways to even handle this. What must be expressed here by you is that you are not trying to control him but to ensure that your relationship can be allowed to stay pure from the individual who was the center of the problem in the first place.
Prevention step 3:
Again let me reiterate this point again that these steps are not easy but necessary. The last step is for you to find out what are the activities that he did or places that they were that contributed to him performing the action on cheating with you. Now let me stop here and point this out to you do not need to know the details of the action. You are here to find out what activities or types of situations that could lead to this action happening again. Repeating patterns and familiar activities puts your partner at risk of cheating again and to prevent this from occurring you have to let him know the importance of changing his activities.
Cheating Partner: Tell-Tale Signs That He May Do It Again and 3 Steps You Can Do to Prevent It SEVERS
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